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Top Ways to Deal With Stress


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Hi there my beautiful lovelies! Hope you guys are doing well and staying safe. Our lives have been turned upside down by the pandemic. Dealing with a new virtual world and tackling all the ups and downs that come with it has been nothing short of stressful. Today, I will share with you some of the top ways I have learned to deal with stress.

What is stress?

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According to the NIH Medlineplus website, stress is a feeling of emotional or physical tension. It can come from any event or thought that makes you feel frustrated, angry, or nervous. Stress is your body’s reaction to a challenge or demand. In short bursts, stress can be positive, such as when it helps you avoid danger or meet a deadline. However, when stress lasts for a long time, it may harm your health.

Our body reacts to stress by releasing hormones. These hormones make our brain more alert, cause our muscles to tense, and increase our pulse. In the short term, these reactions are good because they can help us handle the situation causing stress. This is our body’s way of protecting itself. However, when we have chronic stress, our body stays alert, even though there is no danger. Over time, this puts us at risk for health problems, including: hypertension, heart disease, diabetes, obesity, depressing, menstrual problems, insomnia, and skin problems such as eczema and acne.

Ways to Deal with Stress

In order for us to prevent long-term effects of stress, we need to learn to deal and cope with stress. Some of the best ways to deal with stress includes:

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Taking a break from news: It is good to be informed about the what is happening around us. However, constant exposure to negative news can be traumatic and effect us negatively. One of the best way to deal with this is to limit your exposure to the news couple of times a day. This means take a break from social media, and any outlets where you can be exposed to the news. Instead use the time to do something just for yourself, whether reading a book, painting, crafts, or spending some quality time with the loved ones. Trust me, you will be surprised how positively this will effect your life.

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Taking care of yourself: To deal with stress in the long-term you will need to take care of yourself. Eat healthy and well-balanced meal, exercise, and have a good night sleep. This will make a huge difference in your both your physical and mental well-being.

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Taking a deep breath: With the daily hassle of life we forget to take some deep breaths. As we deal with the hustle and bustle of life, we tend to breath fast. Our body and brain need oxygen to survive and function properly. If we are not breathing efficiently, we’re robbing our body of vital oxygen. In addition to oxygen starvation, if we breathe too fast, we lose carbon dioxide – which could leave our blood vessels at risk of spasm. Additionally, our heart rate goes up and lead to feeling of anxiety and palpitation. So, take the time everyday to consciously teach your body to take deep slow breaths. It will enable more air to flow into your body and can help calm your nerves, reducing stress and anxiety. It can also help you improve your attention span and lower pain levels.

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Talk to others: Consequently, talking to another person relieves stress and helps build friendships and connections. Talking things over with other people also aids in decision-making and provides an avenue to process your thoughts and feelings. Talking also exposes you to new perspectives and ideas and helps with problem-solving. Whether going out with a loved ones for a nice walk outside, or spending time with them for a meal, your body and mind will thank you for it.

My dear beautiful lovelies! Stress has become the daily part of our lives. However, we can take actions to ensure that stress does not take over our lives. Please take the time to take care of yourselves. It is only then you can start living your lives to it’s full potential.

I hope you enjoyed this post. I would like to know about your experience with stress and how you deal with it. I look forward to your comments and feedback.

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Simple Steps To Help Cope With Stress and Stressful Feelings : Soothing Meditative Music


Hi, there my lovelies! Hope you are doing well and staying safe. Today I will share with you simple steps that will help with coping with stress and stressful feelings with soothing and meditative music. This simple 6 minutes of guided meditation will help you cope with stress and stressful feelings with soothing and meditative music.

As mentioned before, I use guided meditation not only to relax and stay grounded, but also to be able to focus and relax while living with ADHD. I have used this stress relief for days I am really busy and don’t have much time. Living with ADD/ADHD itself can be quite stressful and exhausting sometimes. Hence, this short guided meditations not only keep me sane but also mindful and compassionate towards myself.

My dear lovelies! What how do you relax and unwind after stressful days? What works for you and what does not. Please comment below to share your thoughts and feedback.

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Reduce Stress Through These Simple Steps


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Hi there my beautiful lovelies! Hope you all are doing well and staying safe. As promised I will share with you today some simple steps to reduce stress. One thing for sure, the current pandemic and brought out stresses in our lives that we never thought existed. It is also put havoc on our body and digestion. Read the entire blog and I have a bonus for you at the end. Don’t scroll down….

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Stress…what do we mean when to talk about stress?How do we describe stress. It’s our body’s fight or flight response. National Institution of Mental Health (NIMH) defines stress as the following:

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“Stress can be defined as the brain’s response to any demand. Many things can trigger this response, including change. Changes can be positive or negative, as well as real or perceived. They may be recurring, short-term, or long-term and may include things like commuting to and from school or work every day, traveling for a yearly vacation, or moving to another home. Changes can be mild and relatively harmless, such as winning a race, watching a scary movie, or riding a rollercoaster. Some changes are major, such as marriage or divorce, serious illness, or a car accident. Other changes are extreme, such as exposure to violence, and can lead to traumatic stress reactions.”

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Nevertheless, our exposure to stress might be it can have a big toll on our health, hence my today’s blog. I, like many of us have dealt with stress to the point that I always had palpitation, high heart rate (higher than my usual benign high heart rate), insomnia, and anxiety. However, all that changed when I decided to take the 8 week Mindful Based Stress Reduction class Dr. Gina L Sager. She is a retired board-certified general surgeon, named one of Baltimore’s Top Docs in October 2000. Gina taught us to be aware of the present and be in the moment. I am currently in the 7th week of the class and I have so much difference in the class. You can talk her class in Town for $500 or simply her CDs 10% of the proceed of which will go to HopeWell Cancer Support. I use her Yoga Nidra, a deed relaxing guided meditation CD every night help me fall asleep along with Melatonin. I have to say that has been a lifesaver for me. I also use her guided Sitting meditation CD during my one hour subway commute to work everyday that help feel focused and ready to take on the day with all my attention even with my ADD personality.

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During one my long morning commute to work in the past, a lady tapped my shoulder while I was on my meditation mode, and gave a local Washington Post Express newspaper pointing to a particular newspaper article, and saying “this is you”. What was interesting was that she observed it right. The lady in far left was like me. This is what I do everyday. So I am not alone. The article provided the following mindful commuting tips: 1) Focus on your surroundings: Focus you attention from when you will get to you destination to what you notice via your senses, like the sounds, the feel of you feet touching the ground, or places of your body that feel tense. 2) Focus on your breath: If you’re not riding a bike or driving take five slow, deep breaths, then return to normal breathing but try to notice each breath and the space between breaths. 3) Refuse your thoughts: you red lights or stops on a train or bus as a reminder notice whether you’re lost in though. Then refocus on your breathing or your senses.

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There are some great free apps with guided meditation. The one that I love that most is Calm. It’s free in both Google Play. This app can help you meditate, sleep, relax, focus and much more. Don’t let stress take over your health and life. Let’s start by focusing on the moment and being aware of the present. However, in on order to conquer stress to we have to be aware of our feeling.

Now I will share with a bonus video that I have created to help reduce step. Just follow this guided meditation everyday and improve your mental awareness and health, and reduce stress and anxiety in your life.

Please come back tomorrow to learn more about my short 7 days workout challenge toward a flatter stomach and healthier me. Also I will add a separate post on mindful eating (remember the side effect of eating fast?). Until next time, I leave you with the following quotes from Jerry Spinelli,

“Live Yesterday.
Not Yesterday.
Not tomorrow.
Just today.
Inhabit your moments.
Don’t rent them out to tomorrow.”

Hope you enjoyed my post as much I enjoyed writing it. What do you do to reduce stress. Did you find my video helpful. What more would you want do see. Please leave your comments.

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